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The Must 17 Common Everyday Habits That Cause Acne And You Don't Even Know
Looking beautiful not only makes you happy, but gives your self-confidence a boost to go and face the world. When you look good, you...
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We have all been guilty of indulging in a few bad makeup habits that we hate to admit. But, then comes a time when we start experienc...
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Here are the 7 Sure Shot Ways To Wake Up Looking Beautiful Every Morning
When you wake up in the morning, you would usually observe broken hair on your pillow and oil on your face. Over a period of time...
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Thursday, 11 June 2015
Dating Tips for Women Over 30
Dating and relationship coach Ravid Yosef—whose online course Determined to Love —shares over 30 online dating tips for keeping a positive (but firm) attitude, as well as insights into creating a clickable profile and when to go from messaging to meeting in the flesh.
General Things to Keep in Mind
- Date with a purpose. This is a major consideration that separates how women in their 30s online date versus women in their 20s, Yosef says. Women looking for a specific result should ask themselves key questions: “What is their overall vision (the life they want to live)? What is their short term goal (getting married or hooking up)? How are they going to achieve this?”
- It’s a numbers game. With the ease and accessibility of online dating, the truth is that everyone is going on lots of dates. “[Women should] go on as many dates as they can,” Yosef says. “Set a goal for that. And be sure not to get frustrated by bad dates. Every date is an opportunity to learn.”
- Include your must-haves. “It’s important to think about what who you are and what you want in a relationship when you write your profile,” Yosef explains. “If there are things you feel are your must-haves, put them in there (i.e., kids/family, active lifestyle, vegan, etc.). If there are hobbies you want to share with your partner, talk about them passionately in your profile. This will help to attract people with common interests, and pause those who may not be looking for someone who wants what you want.”
- Avoid aggressive wording. Yosef advises against talking about your must-haves with phrases like “I want this” or “I don’t want that.” She goes on to say, “Tell a story and talk about your passions in a positive way. That should convey your wants and needs properly.”
- You can put a positive spin on anything. “For instance,” Yosef says, “you’re not a workaholic, you’re just passionate about your work. You don’t hate the fact that you have to online date, you’re excited about the prospect of meeting new people.”
- Variety is key with photos. “You need more than selfies,” Yosef says. “Have some full-body pictures, and use unfiltered pictures as much as possible. If you have pictures doing the things you speak passionately about, that’s a bonus.”
- Don’t get hung up on minor things. Also, note the wording–women in their 30s can’t wait around for men to message them first. “You need to be in tune with your gut here,” Yosef says. “Take a look at their profile and see what your gut says before your mind starts saying ‘but.’ If he seems like a nice guy and you have some things in common, but he’s not as tall as you would like, message him.”
- Think about the bigger picture. “If he seems like the type of guy you want to end up with, but that’s not your usual type, for God’s sake, message him.”
- Yosef stresses that people should meet “as quickly as possible. The longer you wait, the more likely you are to create a false sense of connection. Studies have proven that the longer you wait, the more disappointed you are in the person because you’ve hyped them up in your head. You should graduate from message to text within 3-5 messages, and to phone or meet-up in 10.”
- “Have fun!” Yosef says. “Don’t put so much pressure on yourself. Enjoy the process of not only getting to know new people, but getting to know yourself.”
Saturday, 6 June 2015
The Must 17 Common Everyday Habits That Cause Acne And You Don't Even Know
And not to forget, the weird sleeping patterns that count up to make the skin dull and prone to breakouts. Not only this, but there are also a few mistakes we knowingly or unknowingly make that increase the chances of getting pimply skin. So, we get you a list of some bad habits you must stop doing to avoid damaging your skin.
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#1. Touching face too often
Throughout the day, our hands come in contact with thousands of bacteria, and we do not necessarily wash our hands every now and then. It is a strange sense of satisfaction that one gets by gently swaying the hands over the face, but that is what transfers those bacteria, oil and dirt particles to the face, thus causing breakouts.
#2. Scrubbing skin the wrong way
You may think that roughly scrubbing your face with a facial scrub, or a towel will help to clean your pores from deep within, but in reality you are just irritating and harming your skin. Gentle scrubbing once a week is more than enough to exfoliate your skin, and remove the layer of dead skin cells.
#3. Popping out pimples
We know you cannot bring yourself to stop doing it, and it is rather fun. But remember, doing so will not only spread the breakouts, but also leave dark and uncool marks.
#4. Dirty makeup brushes
Sometimes, we are too lazy to clean our makeup brushes thinking them to be pretty clean as no one else used it. But, that is one big blunder you are making. Dirt particles and makeup leftovers get clogged in the brush strands that cause acne and other skin infections.
#5. The wrong haircut
If your haircut allows your hair to come on your forehead or cheeks all the time, the pores on your skin are then blocked by those strands, thus encouraging breakouts. So, better choose a haircut that keeps all the hair off your face.
#6. Harsh hair care products
Using hair products with very harsh or skin-irritating agents can lead to breakouts. Products that you use on your hair may come indirectly in contact with your face, seeping deep into the skin pores and blocking them. Thus, in turn giving breakouts a fair opportunity to erupt.
#7. Not taking a bath after an exercise routine
Any exercise routine will make you sweat a lot. Pollution (in case you are exercising outdoors) mixed with sweat and dirt along with the friction of your sweaty clothes is the perfect combination to pave the way for breakouts. Always remember to take a shower after you come back from your workout session.
#8. Not sleeping enough and on time
Getting enough sleep reduces the stress levels in your body and mind. Lower stress levels and an energised body ensure clean and healthy skin, otherwise your skin tends to take a toll of all the ill-effects on your health. And, it comes out in form of acne, and breakouts. So, 'early to bed and early to rise', is the mantra you need to follow to avoid skin damaging.
#9. Changing skin care products too frequently
We all want miracles to happen overnight, and most of the time, we are impatient to wait for long-lasting effects. Changing skin care products too often, just because the previous one did not work that well is not really a great idea. You can end up damaging your skin by trying too many new combinations on it, instead of saying goodbye to breakouts.
#10. Cheap cosmetics
Another mistake that ruins the skin and causes breakouts, is the use of low quality and cheap cosmetics. When it is a matter of your skin, pay a little extra, but always go for good branded skin care products. After all, you do not want to end up paying more for skin treatments that you might need to undergo, due to the damage caused by the cheap cosmetics.
#11. Washing face with hard water
Well, there is nothing much you could do about that if your locality gets only hard water. But, what you could do is use water softeners or filters that can be fixed on to the showers. You can also use a face wash with balanced oil and pH levels to retain the moisture levels of the skin; thus, preventing breakouts.
#12. Severe and harsh sun exposure
Too much sun exposure is another reason for breakouts. The harsh sunlight not only causes skin damage and darkening due to UV Rays, but also makes your skin dry. Thus, stimulating oil production, in turn making the skin more prone to acne. So, always apply a sun-screen lotion before stepping out in the sun, and use sun shields such as, an umbrella, eye shades or stawl to cover your bare body parts.
#13. Not reading the contents of detergent
Sometimes, harsh chemicals present in your laundry detergents can also be a cause for skin breakouts, as they come in contact with your skin each time you use a towel or keep your face on the pillows. So, always go for mild detergents or fabric softeners.
#14. Smoking
Smoking not only can cause cancer, but can also lead to major skin breakouts, wrinkles and premature ageing. This is because every time you smoke, the amount of oxygen that goes into your skin decreases. And, the smoke tends to dry out the skin, stimulating oil production, which again leads to pimples.
#15. Taking too much stress
Yes, taking too much stress, too causes skin breakouts. Under tremendous stress, your skin tends to produce stress hormones that lead to major oil production; thus, creating a breeding ground for breakouts. Meditation, taking breaks from your daily routine, and exercising are some of the ways you can handle your stress.
#16. Eating very spicy food
We are sorry to bring this to your notice, but those of you who love chillies need to choose between the spice and a flawless skin. Chillies have the ability to irritate the skin by unbalancing its pH Levels for many people, hence causing breakouts. Eating spicy food in moderation, however, would not be a bad idea.
#17. Your man’s beard
We know how men now a days can think of nothing but their beard, and chic ways of grooming it. A lot of women too somehow like men with a nice beard. But, did you know that your partner’s beard could be the reason behind your acne? Yes, when you make out, his pokey beard rubs against your soft skin, making it irritable and opening the skin pores. These pores attract dust and oil, and can further lead to nasty pimples
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#1. Falling asleep without removing your makeup
There are days when we are tired beyond imagination, and all we can see is our bed. And, this is how we end up sleeping the entire night without removing the makeup. Well, it may not sound like a big deal, but then, a lot of harm dawns upon your skin and eyes. Makeup and the grime on our skin usually clogs our pores causing acne, especially when left on our face for long. In fact, while we are tossing and turning whole night, the makeup residue may park itself in our eyes and cause infections. Think about it. Is it worth the risk? Better take out a few minutes to remove your makeup before hitting the bed, and wake up with a supple skin the morning after!
#2. Fixation with lash extensions
Some women may not be blessed with fuller, longer lashes and so, they find solace in lash extensions. Although pretty as they may look once you wear them, they can do a lot of harm. Some lash glues have formaldehyde as key ingredient, which can cause irritation to your eyes. So, if you are planning to get a lash extension, we would recommend a patch test before giving your makeup artist a 'go ahead' signal. Besides, another worry that sprouts out if you use extensions is, you might lose your natural eyelash hair. Would you risk no lashes, at all?
#3. Using dirty makeup brushes
For lazy girls, finding time to clean the makeup brushes may not seem important at first. But then, they are the only ones to face the after-effects. Your makeup brushes are a perfect breeding ground for bacteria that can cause skin infections and breakouts. Besides, you would not get the desired results if your brushes have makeup on them. So, wash wet brushes that you use for foundation and concealer at least once in four days, with a mild shampoo, and get rid off the grime. Dry brushes can be washed once a week.
#4. Using liquid liner on your waterline
Some liners if applied to your waterline (area between eye and eyelashes) may cause your eyes to tear and burn because you may be allergic to the ingredients. The safest way out is either using ophthalmologist-tested liquid liners, or try it on small area around your waterline to check if your eyes do not burn. If you are using an eye pencil, sharpen it often to remove bacteria from entering your eye and causing infections.
#5. Overlooking the expiry date of makeup products
Most people know that out-of-date cosmetics are a threat, but they still choose to overlook it. But, the logic we apply to stale food must be applied to stale makeup products as well. You run a strong risk of unwanted skin conditions, eye infections and rashes because over a period of time, all your makeup products like lipsticks, mascaras and liners harbour bacteria. So, go ahead and scan your makeup kit for expired products. Why do you think these products come with an expiry date? They obviously deserve to be in the trash bin and not in your cosmetic kit, once they cross their date!
Other hazardous makeup habits you must break free from:
- Not applying sunscreen can cause premature ageing of skin, wrinkles and sunspots.
- While exfoliating will remove the dead skin cells, overdoing it will cause redness and irritation.
- Though at first, your sisterly bond may convince you to share your makeup products, you need to think again before doing so. This way, you may easily contract cold sores and contagious skin infections.
- Not keeping your makeup products in their rightful, cool and dark spots.
- Heat-styling your hair every day can rob your strands of their moisture, and leave them fragile and dry.
Here are the 7 Sure Shot Ways To Wake Up Looking Beautiful Every Morning
When you wake up in the morning, you would usually observe broken hair on your pillow and oil on your face. Over a period of time you might also see dark circles, wrinkles and fine lines appearing. You end up opening your beauty wardrobe each morning, to resolve these issues.
But, instead of using cosmetics, you should try making some simple changes in your lifestyle. Take a look at a few tricks that will ensure a ‘beautiful you’ every morning.
#1. Get ready beforehand!
The best way to wake up looking beautiful is to sleep prepared for it. No, we are not asking you to sleep as decked up as women from Indian soap operas. Follow a simple skin care regime during the night time. Remove all your makeup, wash your face, and slather on some moisturiser before you go to bed. This is one of the simplest ways to wake up to a soft and supple face every morning.
What's more? Use the night time for your beauty repairs. Yes, night is the best time for you to apply your beauty treatments, be it for your eyes, face or hair. So, invest in some good overnight creams and serums for the sake of your skin.
#2. Sleep on silk or satin
This one may seem a little strange to you, but sleeping on silk or satin is the best way to avoid getting those irritating sleep wrinkles and fine lines on your face that you can get by sleeping on cotton. Since silk is so smooth, your hair and face will experience less friction as you sleep. This means, your hair will not get tangled easily and your face will be protected from early onslaught of fine lines. So, if not silk or satin bed sheets, then buy silk pillow covers to rest your head on.
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#3. Get plenty of sleep
Well, this one is no brainer (or so we hope!). If you take sufficient sleep, then you will not have to worry about your dark circles or under eye bags. Cutting down on the amount of sleep can speed up your ageing process as well. Sleeplessness prevents proper blood circulation in the body, especially on the face, thus making it look more pale. It is this blood flow which results in a brighter and youthful skin.
Moreover, sleepless nights can also lead to weight gain. A 2011 research, published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, found that sleep-deprived people consumed about 300 more calories per day than the well-rested ones. It is so because lack of sleep slows down your metabolism. And, it is this slowdown that triggers the release of stress hormone called cortisol. These stress hormones further boosts your appetite, making you eat more. So, be sure to get at least 8 hours of sleep every day, or else you might just put on weight and get wrinkles really quick!
#4. Sleep on your back
This is one of the most well-kept secrets of waking up looking beautiful- sleep on your back. Do you know that when you sleep on your stomach, your face gets squashed under the weight of your head, and this leads to wrinkles? Yes, this is true. Even many studies and researches have come to light that have shown that sleeping on your stomach increases the risks of wrinkles. So, for the sake of your beautiful face, one tip that you need to follow- sleep on your back.
#5. Pile it under your head
Sleeping with your head slightly elevated will help to improve blood and lymph circulation in your body. If you are sleeping on a flat surface, there are high chances that your body fluids will gather under your eyes and lead to puffy eyes in the morning.
#6. Braid your hair before going to bed
If you braid your hair regularly before going to bed, then it would not be a messy tangle when you wake up. This one is religiously recommended by most grandmothers. It not only strengthens your hair, but also leads to hair growth.
#7. Do your laundry regularly
You may be wondering about the relationship between laundry and your looks? Washing and changing your bed sheets frequently is hygienic and help to keep away bacteria. You should change your pillow covers every other day, and your sheets twice a week. This helps to prevent the build-up of bacteria, which cause skin problems, such as pimples and blackheads.
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