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Pastor Makes Congregants Suck His Privates In Church, Says His Semen Is Holy Milk

An evangelical pastor arrested for raping his faithful, after convincing them that his penis contained “sacred milk” Sobrino Valdeci P...

United State Refuses to Sell Weapons to Nigeria

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After a four-day official visit in the United States of America, President Muhammadu Buhari will be returning to Nigeria today with...

Wow See Wizkid's all white yacht party in Durban

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Star boy Wizkid had an all white party after the MAMAs,which took place in Durban,South Africa on Sunday..Checkout more pics below

YAN TAYA JOS BOMB BLAST YESTERDAY

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A deadly bomb blast hit the Yan-Taya mosque in Jos yesterday. The blast happened as a sermon on the occasion of the Muslim ho ly month of...

B-R-E-A-K-I-N-G News!!! Buhari Releases 183 Boko Haram Fighters.

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President Muhammadu Buhari have ordered the Chief of Army Staff, Lt General Kenneth Minimah to release 183 fighters of the Islamist terror...

Adebayor, Emmanuel Emenike convert to Islam

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The Nigerian star footballer Emmanuel Emenike and Togolese Emmanuel Adebayor have reportedly converted to Islam..According to a report b...

Muhammadu Buhari approves N400bn for workers salaries

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Behind the inability of most states to pay workers salaries, President Muhammadu Buhari has approved a relief package valued at over N4...

Four Suspect: No woman involved in Ikorodu bank robbery-Suspect

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Behind the public parade of four suspected Ikorodu bank robbers ,many questioned the whereabouts of the lady many witnesses say led the ...

Breaking News: Bomb blast in Zaria ,20 dead(Graphic Pics)

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See the Kaduna state governor,Nasir El-Rufai just confirmed the deaths of 20 after a suicide bomber detonated a bomb at Sabon Gari lo...

The Six HSBC staff sacked after filming 'playful' ISIS-style mock execution(Photo)

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The six HSBC staff have been sacked after filming themselves staging a mock ISIS-style beheading during a team building day at a go kart...

The Authentic self-Charly boy writes about his choices in life

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See this writeup is not about validating or explaining all the shenanigans of the Brand, CharlyBoy. But to encourage people of all ages ...

See how Kylie Jenner acheived her 'bigger' butt(Photos)

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|In a few months back,Kylie had tongues wagging when she displayed a noticeably larger derriere..Fast forward to this month,she shared a ...

Wow: 3 arrested for gang raping 16-year old virgin in Lagos

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3 young men have been arrested for gang raping a 16 year old virgin in Orile area of Lagos while on her way from school. The suspects ...

See Cristiano Ronaldo takes lady on dinner date after finding her lost phone(Photos)

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Cristiano Ronaldo takes lady on dinner date after finding her lost phone(Photos) A lady had the date of her dreams after her ...

Hot News: Suicide bomber kills 6 at Redeemed Church in Yobe

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Six persons have been killed in a suicide bomb attack on a church in Potiskum. According to AFP the bomber entered the uncompleted...

Wow See: Kcee shows off his impressive shoe closet (Photos)

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Self proclaimed fashion icon,Kcee took to instagram to show off his shoe closet ..confused as to which to wear,he asked fans to he...

The Skales Reveals

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Its no news that Skales and Wizkid had a huge social media fight over somethings the former said...Skales had alleged he wrote mos...

See: Kim,Kanye and North West celebrate 4th of July in style(Photos)

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The West's stepped out in style as they celebrated 4th of July in New York. Fashionista North West took the shine on her stripped...

Caitlyn Jenner stuns in tight-fitting LBD(Photos)

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Caityln Jenner stepped out last night for dinner in a tight-fitting black dress as she exited Tribeca Italian restaurant in New Yo...

All Progressive Change insists on Ekweremadu's removal

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The leadership of the All Progressives Congress on Monday insisted on removing the Deputy Senate President, Ike Ekweremadu, o...

The Love! Kylie ,Khloe & Tyga all hugged up as she moves in to $2.7m home(Photos)

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These sisters support eachother and who ever they choose to love..Khloe Kardashian shared this adorable pic of Tyga hugging Kylie and she...

The 70-year old cuts own throat with razor blade in Kwara

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A 70-year old woman, Mrs. Saratu Rahman, aka Iya Ogbomoso , from Offa, in the Offa Local Government Area of Kwara State, has kille...

Jong Kim Un executes airport architect because he didn't like the design

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North Korean leader Kim Jong Un has executed the chief architect of the new international Pyongyang airport...This news comes after he ...

When ''I feel no remorse for the death of them demons-Mum who killed her own 2 kids

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A mother who killed two of her children leaving their bodies in her kitchen freezer has pleaded guilty to their murders saying: ...

Obama supports gay marriage, I shall ask him to marry me-Robert Mugabe

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Following the legalization of same sex marriage all over America, Zimbabwe’s 90-year-old president Robert Mugabe,has said he would as...

Shay Seyi shares pics from her hospital bed

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Sexy singer Seyi Shay is in the hospital as she battles an undisclosed ailment. The singer shared a photo of drips injected into ...

Badmus Eniola flaunts legs in sexy shorts

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Eniola Badmus is all about flaunting her legs these days...She looks good!

Danjuma Caroline proves she's 28 not 34 by sharing ID card

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Caroline Danjuma has fired back at claims she is 34. The actress and mother of three who celebrated her birthday a few days ago sa...

The Residents,motorists panic in Ikorodu over Oba's death

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The reported demise of Oba Johnson Fatola of Ikorodu whose death was announced around 6pm on Monday, June 29, 2015,the residents ...

Reason Why I slept with my granddaughters – 75 year old

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A 75-year old grandfather, who allegedly slept with his granddaughter, has told the police that he was lured into the shameful act ...

If You Know, You Know: 6 Signs You’re Ready To Love Someone

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You may say you’re ready to love someone, but your actions speak louder than your words. Being ready for love isn’t about creating an O...

What It Feels Like When You’ve Found Your Soul Mate

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I never thought I would find the one I was meant to be with for the rest of my life. Coming from a broken marriage with a twist (m...

Ways to Make Your Boyfriend Want You More Than Everything

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Does your boyfriend love you and desire you? Use these 16 do’s and don’ts and learn how to make your boyfriend want you and desire you ...

True Love

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Just like I’d never sleep with a virgin because I know I wouldn’t enjoy the s*x, I wouldn’t want to be someone’s first love because she,...

25 Signs You’ve Found Your Life Partner

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The quest to find our one true “person” is always on the forefront of our minds. It’s almost impossible to escape the desire to find ou...

The Top 5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Jumping Into A New Relationship

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Today, so many of us are focused on finding love or people to spend our lives with that we end up settling and/or getting into relation...

So Amazing 4 Ways You Subconsciously Surrender Your Mind And Body To A New Love

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How do you know when you’re falling in love? The tricky part is you don’t really “know.” The phases leading up to love seem to be more...

Why I Still Believe In The Lost Art Of Dating

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There’s so much talk today about the death of “real dates.” You know, old-fashioned dates, ones that typically consist of a dinner out ...

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Thursday 3 September 2015

Pastor Makes Congregants Suck His Privates In Church, Says His Semen Is Holy Milk

An evangelical pastor arrested for raping his faithful, after convincing them that his penis contained “sacred milk”

Sobrino Valdeci Picanto, an evangelical pastor from Brazil, persuaded his followers that he practiced oral sex because it was the way he preached the word, saying that his ‘milk’ was sacred.

And this pastor said his penis was blessed and that “the Lord had consecrated with divine milk of the Holy Spirit” and of course, had to go around evangelising.

“He convinced us that only God could come into our lives through the mouth”, a follower said, “Often, after worship, Pastor Valdeci asked us to do oral sex on him until the Holy Spirit came through ejaculation and delivered funds to the church.”

Sobrino Valdeci Picanto, 59, was arrested in Apore, Goiás, Brazil, for raping several women attending his church. He gave as an excuse that his penis had been consecrated with “divine semen of the Holy Spirit.”

Valdecir came to abuse some elderly, and defends himself by saying that ‘he had an encounter with Jesus in a brothel and gave him the mission of spreading the sacred semen throughout the state, beginning with the faithful Apore Assembly, of which he is responsible’.

Denise Pinheiro, delegate of the region, said, “Valdecir was caught red-handed while rubbing his penis in the face of a local merchant, which promised to make more sales in her business due to the divine liquid.

When we acted Valdecir offered no resistance and even asked if I wanted to be part of the kingdom of heaven on the way to the police station.

It seems that Pastors are now scandal makers. For example, a Zimbabwean Pastor died shortly after sleeping with a prostitute, while another Pastor poured acid on a woman he was having an affair with and she died, , another Pastor was filmed sleeping with one of his married congregants
The most shocking however, is a Pastor who tried to walk on water like Jesus did, and he drowned in front of his congregants, and another Pastor who asked to be buried alive so that he could ressurect himself like Jesus. Another self confessed Prophet died after fasting in the mountains for 30 days. He was found dead there.

Meanwhile some University students have since left their school and camped in the bush claiming they are waiting for Jesus to come back

You can read many more stories of Christians Gone Made here - Shocking Stories About Christians

Friday 24 July 2015

United State Refuses to Sell Weapons to Nigeria

After a four-day official visit in the United States of America, President Muhammadu Buhari will be returning to Nigeria today with no pledge of concrete military assistance against Boko Haram terrorists from his hosts.
The US government told the Nigerian leader that its arms are tied by an American law, the Leahy Act, which prevents it from selling arms to countries with human rights abuse records.
President Buhari, who is returning home displeased, told the US government that the refusal by America to arm Nigerian troops because of “so-called human rights violations” and “unproven allegations,” would only help Boko Haram.
A global human rights watch group, Amnesty International, had recently accused the Nigerian military under former President Goodluck Jonathan of gross human rights abuses in the prosecution of the war on terrorists.
The Nigerian military forces had denied the allegation which President Buhari pledged to investigate.
Buhari “departs with little practical military assistance in his battle against the Islamist militants who have turned the northeast of his country into a bloody war zone,” the Associated Press (AP) reported on Wednesday.
The US government has vowed to help Nigeria defeat the insurgency but it is prohibited under law from sending weapons to countries that fail to tackle human rights abuses.
“Regretably, the blanket application of the Leahy Law by the United States on the grounds of unproven allegations of human rights violations levelled against our forces has denied us access to appropriate strategic weapons to prosecute the war,” Buhari said.
Addressing an audience of policy-makers, activists and academics in Washington, Buhari complained that Nigerian forces had been left “largely impotent” in the face of Boko Haram’s campaign of kidnapping and bombings.
“They do not possess the appropriate weapons and technology which we could have had if the so-called human rights violations had not been an obstacle,” he said.
“Unwittingly, and I dare say unintentionally, the application of the Leahy Law Amendment by the United States government has aided and abetted the Boko Haram terrorists.”
He appealed to both the White House and the US Congress to find a way around the law — introduced by Senator Patrick Leahy in 1997 — and to supply Nigerian troops with high-tech weapons under a deal “with minimal strings.”
Since 2009, Boko Haram has been trying to establish an Islamist breakaway state in a conflict that has seen 15,000 people killed and 1.5 million displaced.
The group’s brutality and in particular the mass kidnapping and enslavement of schoolgirls has shocked world opinion.
In June, rights watchdog Amnesty International said there was sufficient evidence to launch an investigation into senior Nigerian officers for war crimes.
In a 133-page report, the group blamed the army for the extrajudicial execution of 1,200 people and the torture or arbitrary detention of thousands more.
Buhari insists that the charges are not proven, but he has replaced his senior military commanders and has promised to investigate the allegations.

Thursday 23 July 2015

Wow See Wizkid's all white yacht party in Durban

Star boy Wizkid had an all white party after the MAMAs,which took place in Durban,South Africa on Sunday..Checkout more pics below

Tuesday 7 July 2015

YAN TAYA JOS BOMB BLAST YESTERDAY

A deadly bomb blast hit the Yan-Taya mosque in
Jos yesterday. The blast happened as a sermon
on the occasion of the Muslim holy month of
Ramadan was going on.
Another blast also occurred at Bauchi Road, a
major thoroughfare in Jos that is also in an area
where many Muslim families reside.
At least 15 people were killed and 20 others were
injured in the attacks.
Read an eyewitness' narration of the incidence.
Today (Sunday) started as a normal day, it was
around 9:45pm I was just walking past the Izala
mosque besides Yan Tayah junction, when I
stopped to buy what would be my last cigarette
When I heard a brust of multiple gunshots. I had
planned to quit smoking today and Infact since
the Ramadan fasting began, I have been buying
just a single stick thrice a day just to cut down on
the number of cigarettes I smoke.
As usual, I stopped at Babawo to buy my good
night stick, when I heard the shooting. I
immediately dropped to the floor and behold, I
saw the gunman shooting directly at the Mosque
on RAPID MODE. Then from the direction of
GOOD NEWS Chruch, another Gunman started
shooting at people running away from the scene.
I remained calm and pinned to the ground
observing and watching, then all of a Sudden, a
young man dash from the direction of the first
gunman and head straight to the mosque and
detonated his explosive.
Immediately after the blast, the echo of
advancing youths chanting "Allahu Akbar" coming
towards the scene of blast forced both gunmen to
escape from the scene. While running away,
unconfirmed report suggest they threw an hand
grenade at a white garment Celebrum. Chruch,
while another account said irate miscreants burnt
the church.
However, at as 12:00am, 18 ppl are confirmed
death. Both gunmen escape and the apparent
target was Mallam Yahaya Sani Jingir the National
President of IZALA sect. If we could remember.
After Boko Haram have killed Albani Zaria, Shekau
have explicitly stated that the next target

B-R-E-A-K-I-N-G News!!! Buhari Releases 183 Boko Haram Fighters.

President Muhammadu Buhari have ordered the Chief of Army Staff, Lt General Kenneth Minimah to release 183 fighters of the Islamist terror group, Boko Haram, with immediate effect.
The President who describes the Islamist as his disgruntled brothers is planning to have a negotiation with the terrorists that lead Amnesty and financial compensation for a group that sent over 19,000 Nigerians to untimely grave.

Adebayor, Emmanuel Emenike convert to Islam

The Nigerian star footballer Emmanuel Emenike and Togolese Emmanuel Adebayor have reportedly converted to Islam..According to a report by Daily Post, Emenike reportedly told his coach at Fenerbahce, Vitor Pereira, that he is now a Muslim.
The Super Eagles striker was missing when the squad had breakfast on Saturday, prompting the manager to ask his whereabouts.According to Turkish daily Fanatik

“I’m fasting,” Emenike reportedly told Pereira,

Pereira replied: “You’re not a Muslim,” insisting that Emenike is a Christian.

In response, Emenike made itclear he was muslim saying....

Muhammadu Buhari approves N400bn for workers salaries

Behind the inability of most states to pay workers salaries, President Muhammadu Buhari has approved a relief package valued at over N400bn to ensure workers being owed salaries are paid..

Four Suspect: No woman involved in Ikorodu bank robbery-Suspect

Behind the public parade of four suspected Ikorodu bank robbers ,many questioned the whereabouts of the lady many witnesses say led the bank robbery..However, one of the suspects,Bright Agbojule, has stated that the group was not led by a woman
Agbojule is one one of the four persons accused of being members of an 18-man bank robbery gang that attacked banks in Ikorodu, Lekki and Ijede, all in Lagos state
Agbojule was paraded along with Monday Omoboye, 39, aka Alarm Blow; Monday Ikuesan, 37, and Promise Abiwa, 20, by Police Commissioner (CP) Kayode Aderanti, on his last day of duty in Lagos on Monday.
The 25-year old who said they were all boys in the gang, told newsmen that they were led by two men known Million and Kakado, both at large as at the time of filing this report.
He claimed that he was only invited to join the crew a week to the operation, noting that, he was a timber worker at Ebute-Metta and only joined because of poverty.He said

Breaking News: Bomb blast in Zaria ,20 dead(Graphic Pics)

See the Kaduna state governor,Nasir El-Rufai just confirmed the deaths of 20 after a suicide bomber detonated a bomb at Sabon Gari local government ,Zaria this morning .The bombing occurred at at workers’ biometric screening centre .The civil servants were registering to work for the new state government at the local government headquarters.

The Six HSBC staff sacked after filming 'playful' ISIS-style mock execution(Photo)

The six HSBC staff have been sacked after filming themselves staging a mock ISIS-style beheading during a team building day at a go karting centre.HSBC is one of the largest banking organizations in the world..

The footage posted online shows five men in black overalls and balaclavas laughing as they stand over an Asian colleague, named as Saf Ahmed, who is kneeling in an orange jumpsuit.

According to Daily Mail,One of the workers shouts 'Allahu Akbar' - Arabic for 'God is great' - as an 'executioner' brandishes a coat hanger as a fake knife.The eight-second video, obtained by The Sun, was shot as the workers were on a team-building exercise at a Teamworks Karting track in Birmingham organised by the bank.

The Authentic self-Charly boy writes about his choices in life

See this writeup is not about validating or explaining all the shenanigans of the Brand, CharlyBoy. But to encourage people of all ages who may be battling with who they really are, as oppose to who they think they are.
These days with all the fakeness and all the hypocrites that abound in Naija, It is very refreshing and special, to meet people who are severely and unapologetically themselves. I thank God that as a child when others wanted to be Doctors, Lawyers and whatever, all I wanted to do was to do ME even without understanding at the time the consequences of doing me!

However that came with its price, because my old man didn't spare the rod when it came to putting me in check for being restless, reckless and rebellious. Unconsciously I imbibed the habit of doing me or nothing. I certainly did not foresee that one day I would find myself in the position of being both myself and a whole lot more.

See how Kylie Jenner acheived her 'bigger' butt(Photos)

|In a few months back,Kylie had tongues wagging when she displayed a noticeably larger derriere..Fast forward to this month,she shared a selfie rocking all white with her butt back to normal..Turns out,the 17 year old used a butt pad to enhance her behind..

If her intention was to see how a butt implants would look on her,she seems to have discarded the idea as many accused her of wanting to be like Kim so bad..

Wow: 3 arrested for gang raping 16-year old virgin in Lagos

3 young men have been arrested for gang raping a 16 year old virgin in Orile area of Lagos while on her way from school. The suspects identified as Sunday Simeon, 18, from Akwa Ibom state; Adebayo Omoniyi 18, from Ondo state; Nnaemeka Uzodinma 24, from Imo state and Seyi (surname unknown) who is currently on the run attacked, abducted and gang raped the victim who is a JSS 3 student on June 23, 2015.

learnt that the suspects attacked the victim after one of the suspects; Adebayo took the victim’s phone around Arikeuyo junction while returning from school at Orile. It was gathered that while the victim was struggling with Adebayo, his partners-in-crime dragged her into a tricycle and rode her to no 15 Unity Close in Orile Iganmu. When they got there they took off her school uniform and raped her one after the other starting from Adebayo.

See Cristiano Ronaldo takes lady on dinner date after finding her lost phone(Photos)

Cristiano Ronaldo takes lady on dinner date after finding her lost phone(Photos)
A lady had the date of her dreams after her lost phone was found by Cristiano Ronaldo.It appears while partying over the weekend in Vegas, she lost her phone and he found it,contacted her and took her and her friends to dinner.The excited lady Austin Woolstenhulme,took to social media to post pictures and share the good news.

'Bad news is I lost my phone two days ago. Good news is Cristiano Ronaldo found it. Better news is he took us to dinner last night.'

Lucky girl..

Sunday 5 July 2015

Hot News: Suicide bomber kills 6 at Redeemed Church in Yobe

Six persons have been killed in a suicide bomb attack on a church in Potiskum.

According to AFP the bomber entered the uncompleted Redeemed Christian Church of God at 9:55 am in the Jigawa area on the outskirts of the city in Yobe state and detonated his explosives, killing the worshippers, including a woman and her two children as well as the pastor, they said.

“Four worshippers died instantly while the fifth victim gave up shortly after she was taken to hospital,” a police officer involved in the evacuation told AFP.“The victims included a woman and her two children, the pastor and another worshipper,” added the officer who spoke on condition of anonymity.

Witness Garba Manu told AFP the bomber arrived at the church on a motorised rickshaw disguised as a worshipper and detonated his explosives as soon as he entered the church.

“I saw when the bomber alighting from a motorised rickshaw and entering the church and as soon as he entered a loud explosion ripped through the church which is under construction,” he said.

“I saw him walked into the church and he didn’t raise any suspicion. Five worshippers, including three females and two males were in the church when the bomber entered and they were all killed,“The dismembered body of the bomber was also recovered,” said Manu, who lives in the area.

The use of improvised explosive devices and suicide bombings has increased since May 29 when President Muhammadu Buhari took office vowing to crush the rebellion.
According to an AFP tally, at least 654 people have lost their lives since that date.

Wow See: Kcee shows off his impressive shoe closet (Photos)

Self proclaimed fashion icon,Kcee took to instagram to show off his shoe closet ..confused as to which to wear,he asked fans to help him make a decision..
More below

The Skales Reveals

Its no news that Skales and Wizkid had a huge social media fight over somethings the former said...Skales had alleged he wrote most of Wizkid's hit songs,he also said Wizkid was avoiding a collaboration with him..
Now,Skales has moved on to a new record label but tells whoever cares to know,he wasn't unproductive during his time at Banky W' led EME records..In a new interview with RubbingMinds today,Skales opened up some more on his deal at EME and how he did most of the work on EME's Joint album..

See: Kim,Kanye and North West celebrate 4th of July in style(Photos)

The West's stepped out in style as they celebrated 4th of July in New York. Fashionista North West took the shine on her stripped jacket, mini skirt and ballet shoes..

Tuesday 30 June 2015

Caitlyn Jenner stuns in tight-fitting LBD(Photos)

Caityln Jenner stepped out last night for dinner in a tight-fitting black dress as she exited Tribeca Italian restaurant in New York City..The 65 year old turned heads in her six inch heels..
Her doctors did a good job though!

All Progressive Change insists on Ekweremadu's removal

The leadership of the All Progressives Congress on Monday insisted on removing the Deputy Senate President, Ike Ekweremadu, of the minority Peoples Democratic Party.

Punch learnt on Monday that the ruling APC was still miffed that Ekweremadu emerged as the deputy senate president and had vowed never to allow “a senator from a minority party take over the duties statutorily assigned for the majority party.”

A leader of the APC, who spoke on condition of anonymity, explained that Ekweremadu as deputy senate president would hamper the President Muhammadu Buhari’s administration.

The APC leader told Punch

“As deputy senate leader, Ekweremadu is automatically the Chairman, Senate Committee on Constitution Amendment. This is a sensitive position that, statutorily, should not be held by the minority.

The Love! Kylie ,Khloe & Tyga all hugged up as she moves in to $2.7m home(Photos)

These sisters support eachother and who ever they choose to love..Khloe Kardashian shared this adorable pic of Tyga hugging Kylie and she hugging them as the 17 year oldmoved into her $2.7million Calabasas home..
Khloe and Kylie are now neigbours ..Kylie has always said Khloe is more like a mum to her..

The 70-year old cuts own throat with razor blade in Kwara

A 70-year old woman, Mrs. Saratu Rahman, aka Iya Ogbomoso, from Offa, in the Offa Local Government Area of Kwara State, has killed herself with a razor blade.

According to Punch, the woman, a mother of four, cut her throat with the razor blade.

A neighbour, who identified herself simply as Yetunde, said when she and other neighbours heard Rahman screamed, they rushed to her room and saw her in a pool of blood.

She stated that they contacted the police, adding that she was later rushed to a hospital where she was treated for two days before she eventually died.

She said,

Jong Kim Un executes airport architect because he didn't like the design

North Korean leader Kim Jong Un has executed the chief architect of the new international Pyongyang airport...This news comes after he was pictured touring the building with his wife last week(above)..According to reports, the architect was executed because Kim didn’t like the design.

The project is the country’s latest bid to appeal to potential tourists since Kim ascended to power in North Korea three years ago and features a jewellery store, coffee bar, a pharmacy, a chocolate fountain and other luxury amenities.

Until his disappearance last year, Ma Won Chun, was North Korea’s director of the Designing Department of the National Defence Commission.His execution was confirmed when he was noticeably absent from the press photos.

When ''I feel no remorse for the death of them demons-Mum who killed her own 2 kids

A mother who killed two of her children leaving their bodies in her kitchen freezer has pleaded guilty to their murders saying:

“I don’t feel no remorse for the death of them demons.”

Mitchelle Blair of Detroit, Michigan, callously admitted abusing her 13-year-old daughter Stoni Blair and nine-year-old Stephen Berry, before their deaths.The bodies of the children were discovered in a deep freezer at her apartment on May 24 when bailiffs arrived to evict her.The mother has two surviving children aged eight and 17-years-old.

As she appeared in court Blair said she killed her children after claiming they repeatedly “gang-raped” her youngest child.

Obama supports gay marriage, I shall ask him to marry me-Robert Mugabe

Following the legalization of same sex marriage all over America, Zimbabwe’s 90-year-old president Robert Mugabe,has said he would ask President Barack Obama's hand in marriage ..While speaking in his weekly radio interview with Zimbabwe’s national radio on Saturday, he said

“I’ve just concluded since President Obama endorses the same-sex marriage, advocates homosexual people and enjoys an attractive countenance thus if it becomes necessary , I shall travel to Washington, D.C. , get down on my knee , and ask his [Obama’s] hand,” “I can’t understand how this people dare to defy Christ’s explicit orders as our Lord prohibited mankind from sodomy,”

He also added that the American Government is run by pervert, Satan-worshipers who insults the Great American nation

Shay Seyi shares pics from her hospital bed

Sexy singer Seyi Shay is in the hospital as she battles an undisclosed ailment. The singer shared a photo of drips injected into her arm, disclosing how she hates hospitals..

We hope she gets back in her feet pretty soon.. See pic below

Badmus Eniola flaunts legs in sexy shorts

Eniola Badmus is all about flaunting her legs these days...She looks good!

Danjuma Caroline proves she's 28 not 34 by sharing ID card

Caroline Danjuma has fired back at claims she is 34. The actress and mother of three who celebrated her birthday a few days ago says she is 28, yet many don't believe her. She went ahead to post her masters degree ID card.

The Residents,motorists panic in Ikorodu over Oba's death

The reported demise of Oba Johnson Fatola of Ikorodu whose death was announced around 6pm on Monday, June 29, 2015,the residents and visitors to Igbogbo, Ikorodu fled for saftey as such deaths are accompanied by late night curfew...
The curfew in line with traditional culture is usually observed for a week .It bans males and females from being seen outside at a certain hour and failure to observe teh curfew often attracts deadly consequences ..

According to Vanguard,Residents were said to have made several calls to friends and family members to hurry home for fear of street urchins taking advantage of the situation to wreak havoc in the community. As at 7pm many shops were closed as people ran for dear lives, while commercial drivers abandoned major routes for fear of vandalisation.

Saturday 27 June 2015

Reason Why I slept with my granddaughters – 75 year old

A 75-year old grandfather, who allegedly slept with his granddaughter, has told the police that he was lured into the shameful act by his daughter.
The Septuagenarian, Mr. Umoru Choji, who lives in Bukuru, Jos South Local Government Area of Plateau State, was said to have had canal knowledge of two of his grand daughters before he was caught.
But speaking with newsmen, Choji, who was paraded by the police, said, “It was these girls that put me into this trouble. They were the ones who always come to me and they arose my interest in sex. I didn’t even know when I started having sex with them.”
The shameless old man said the young girls reported him to the police after he stopped them from coming to his house.
He said: “I am married, and my wife is still alive. These girls were the ones that lured me into the act. It was not my intention. I know I had sex with them many times, but I stopped them from coming to me. So, they went and lie against me, and the parents of the other girls reported me to the police,” adding, “I feel bad, I did not know they will tell people what we were doing. The children deceived me and they went and report me to their parents.”
While parading the suspect, the Police Commissioner, Nasiru Oki, said: “The suspect, Mr. Umoru Choji, aged 75, lived in Bukuru, Jos South Local Government Area of Plateau state. The suspect had canal knowledge of his grand daughters several times before he was discovered.
“One of the grand daughter is just 11 years old, while the second daughter is 14-year old.
“The suspect, who is already in police net, will be charged to court as soon as all the processes are completed.”
In a related development, the police command paraded a young man who allegedly killed another man in the room of his girlfriend. The suspect said he had warned the other man not to come near his girlfriend.
The police commissioner said, “The suspect, Monday Pam stabbed to death one Christopher Vincent and dumped the corpse by the road side in Zawan village of Bukuru, Jos a South LGA of Plateau State.
“The police, through diligent investigation, arrested the deceased girlfriend, Magdaline Fidelis, on allegation of conspiracy. And on interrogation, the lady confessed to the police that the deceased was killed by Monday Pam over a misunderstanding.
“On interrogation, Monday Pam owned up to the crime, and he will soon be charged to court alongside the woman.”
However, the suspect, Monday Pam said, “I warned the man to stay away from my girlfriend, but he would not listen. I warned him several times to leave my girlfriend for me, but he kept coming there. We met in the house one day and we started fighting. But when he wanted to overpower me, I removed my knife and stabbed him,” he said.

Friday 26 June 2015

If You Know, You Know: 6 Signs You’re Ready To Love Someone

You may say you’re ready to love someone, but your actions speak louder than your words.
Being ready for love isn’t about creating an OkCupid profile or finally taking the time to shave your cha-cha carefully.
It’s not about clearing the space in your closet to attract a partner or changing your hairstyle.
By doing these things as preparation for love, you are demonstrating that you may be ready to ACCEPT love instead of give it.
You need to be ready to accept love and to give love in order to find what you are looking for. Being ready to give love is a process in itself. How do you know when you are ready?

1. You look at a person for what you can love about him or her instead of picking apart why he or she is unworthy.

You stop worrying about that outdated jacket he always wears and focus more on the way he always remembers the little things about you.
You don’t ditch her when you find out she does not have a degree. Instead, you text her a sweet message when she changes her plans to spend time with you.

2. You are willing to love someone when you cannot get close to him or her.

Kids get in the way, so does distance and time. You may even have goals that do not align at the moment.
No matter what may pop up in life, you are willing to love someone, even at a distance.

3. You are okay with the frustration of being misunderstood and taken for granted sometimes.

Love doesn’t always feel good. When people act like, well, people, you understand those are experiences every human goes through and it is merely the flipside of love.

4. You feel stupid.

You feel stupid for sharing your real feelings, stupid for letting someone invade your mind and stupid for giving love another chance. And, you are okay with this feeling.

5. You stop wondering what someone else can add to your life.

Most people can fend for themselves, so it is very easy to give up. Why put up with someone who isn’t perfect when you have yourself?
When you are ready to love someone, you think more about what you can add to his or her life than what he or she can give you or do for you.

6. You want to give love the right way.

You understand that being able to love a person is about figuring out how to love another person the way he or she needs to be loved.

What It Feels Like When You’ve Found Your Soul Mate

I never thought I would find the one I was meant to be with for the rest of my life.
Coming from a broken marriage with a twist (my father came out of the closet at age 30), I always figured I would fly solo here in this world.
I partied like the world was ending and drank like my life depended on it. Nights consisted of bar crawls and drinking competitions in which I would always be deemed winner.
The idea of a man was not a constant in my life from my youth so, naturally, I would tell myself that rule applied when it came to my love life. I never truly invested because I always subconsciously feared abandonment.
The men who existed in my love life all seemed as though they had potential, but never quite made the cut.
I always figured it was my daddy issues that were the problem, and that I scared them away with any of my vast imperfections.
I would cry to myself and wonder what was wrong with me, but little did I know I was not the problem at all.
The reality of the situation was those people were not meant to be with me and I was not meant to be with them. It’s as simple as that.
I know that it’s clichéd to say, “when you know, you know,” but it really is true.
A person is born into this universe as a half and it is up to us to find our other halves so we can exist as whole.
When you find that actual other half, you walk through life on a whole other level.
Here’s how to tell if you are really with the right person:

1. Worship

I know this sounds tacky, but being in a relationship means, in most instances, a certain form of worship to be dedicated to one another.
If he or she does not look up to you and admire everything that you stand for and accomplish, things need to be rethought.
It shouldn’t be a smothering kind of thing; it should be balanced with respect and affection in a healthy way.

2. Balance

There should be a maintained balance in personalities, strengths and weaknesses when it comes to your relationship. Whatever you are not, your significant other should be and vice versa.
This will enable the both of you to grow in the areas in which you are not strongest, which is the absolute goal in any relationship.

3. Acceptance

Acceptance is a big component in life and just as much in any given relationship.
If you cannot accept the flaws that exist in your significant other, there will be bigger issues further down the line.
The harsh reality is people are not built to drastically change, so the sooner you accept what he or she has to offer, the sooner you can start to enjoy your life together.

4. Growth

If you and your girl or guy are in the same place emotionally three years later as you were the day you met, you have to start thinking about why that is.
In order for a relationship to exist in the long term, you need to be able to grow and evolve as an entity that consists of two separate people slowly becoming one.

5. Understanding

Without understanding, love cannot exist. You must be able to understand where your significant other came from and where he or she stands in every moment of time when the two of you are together.
Being able to put yourself in your partner’s shoes is an extremely important ability one should be able to obtain within a relationship in order for it to be successful in the grand scheme of things.
This means you need to be completely selfless when it comes to your relationship at least half the time — if not more — which is an extremely difficult thing that isn’t done by a human being for just anyone.
If you’re able to accomplish these five extremely important emotional obstacles within your relationship, you are definitely on the right track to locking down your soul mate for the rest of your life.
Keep in mind, though, these things come and develop over time, so if you’re in the beginning of something promising, don’t worry if certain things seem underdeveloped.
As long as it feels as though growth exists perpetually within your relationship, you are definitely in the clear for being madly and hopelessly in love.

Ways to Make Your Boyfriend Want You More Than Everything

Does your boyfriend love you and desire you? Use these 16 do’s and don’ts and learn how to make your boyfriend want you and desire you more than ever!

Do you think your boyfriend could love you more?
Or perhaps, love you better?
Most of the time, girls just learn to accept their boyfriend for who they are.
Even though their boyfriends are nothing like the man of their dreams.
And over time, these girls compromise on their own wants and wait for their boyfriend to show the smallest romantic gesture to feel better about the relationship.
Seriously, don’t be that girl.
How to make your boyfriend want you
Every guy has the potential to be the perfect boyfriend, just as soon as he learns to follow the rules.
And it all starts with these 10 tips on how to make your boyfriend want you more and 6 more tips on things you should avoid doing to be wanted by your boyfriend.
All of us take relationships for granted eventually, even if we don’t intend to at the beginning.
But can you really blame yourself or your partner, when either of you don’t remind each other about it?
If you want to have a happy relationship and a boyfriend who appreciates you, don’t compromise on your wants and desires in the relationship just to make your boyfriend feel happy. He’ll start to accept you for who you are, instead of realizing how understanding, accommodating and genuinely nice you actually are.
Sacrificing your happiness for someone is a good sign, but only if it’s mutual. There’s a thin red line between sacrificing and suffering in a relationship.
Understand these tips on making your boyfriend want you and use them. You’ll see the difference in no time.
#1 Look good in his arms. Let’s talk about pleasing your man with appearances first. Guys are shallow, and the physical appearance of their girlfriend plays a big part in his ego and his desire to be with you. Look s*xy and have eyes turn towards you when you’re in his arms. If his friends think you’re hot stuff, he’ll desire you and want to be with you more. And he’ll never want to let go of you.
#2 Respect yourself. Your boyfriend is not better than you. Falling in love is a mutual experience between lovers. Have an ego and be confident of yourself. If you truly respect yourself, your boyfriend can’t help but respect you and admire you.
#3 Spend time with your own friends. Make your own plans now and then. Go out with your own friends and feel good about yourself, be it in having a good conversation or attracting the attention of another cute guy. Believe in yourself, and remember that you’re still hot stuff. And the best part, he’ll miss you more when you aren’t available at his beck and call.
#4 Have your own life. Your boyfriend is only a part of your life, not all of it. If you’re always with him or he finds you available all the time, he’ll only take you for granted.
#5 Be a wildcat with fiery passion. Try new things in bed. If you want to know how to make your boyfriend want you s*xually, don’t be predictable in bed. Try new things and don’t let bedtime get boring. Enjoy s*x and take pride in your passion and interest in exploring s*x.
#6 Be a smart girl. Be aware of the world around you, be it on the news or in current affairs. Men always think they’re more intelligent and aware. Prove him wrong, he’ll worship you and take you more seriously.
#7 Play hard to get when he takes you easy. Don’t let your boyfriend ever take you for granted. If you ever feel like he’s taking you lightly, put him in place. It’ll scare him, true, but it’ll also make him realize that you’re not someone to be taken for granted.
#8 Display PDA. Men love it when their girl shows her appreciation in public. It makes them feel desired and lucky. Wrap your arm around him or place your hand on his cheek in appreciation when he’s being nice. He’ll be a lot nicer and he’ll be happy to have a girlfriend like you.
#9 Walk away if he disrespects you. Snub him or avoid his calls when he disrespects you. He’ll be too scared to take you lightly. You’re not throwing a tantrum by doing this, you’re letting him know that you have self respect.
#10 Follow your own dreams. Be passionate about life and your own ambitions. Your boyfriend will never respect you or desire you if all you do is sit wide eyed and stare when he talks about his ambitions and dreams, and have nothing to share in return.
Six things to avoid if you want your boyfriend to want you
#1 Don’t be too easy to get. Don’t be available for him anytime he calls you. Don’t change your plans just to be with him. Let him know that you have a life too, and he needs to take you more seriously if he wants you by his side.
#2 Don’t be a pushover. If he changes plans in the last minute and leaves you in the middle of a date to hang out with his friends, or cancels a date for silly reasons, don’t accept such behavior. If he walks away, call another cute guy and hang out with him just to get back at your boyfriend. It’s the only way he’ll learn.
#3 Don’t be eager to please him. Pleasing each other should be mutual. If you find that you’re the only one indulging in sweet gestures while he just behaves like a slob, put an end to it and make him work for your attention all over again.
#4 Don’t be the first one to make up all the time. This is especially important if it’s not your own fault. If your boyfriend’s taking you for granted, and you find yourself being the one who has to make up all the time, ignore him for a while or give him a cold shoulder. If he really cares, he’ll swallow his pride and come back crawling.
#5 Don’t be clingy and needy. Show off your independence even if you’re just idle and sitting at home. Appear like you’re a girl who can sort her own affairs. He should know that spending even a few minutes with you is a privilege!
#6 Don’t be a bad damsel in distress. Men love a damsel in distress, but only if you play the part in the right manner. Make him feel like a man, but don’t always go trailing him for help.

True Love

Just like I’d never sleep with a virgin because I know I wouldn’t enjoy the s*x, I wouldn’t want to be someone’s first love because she, likewise, has too much to learn.
With love, just as with everything else intelligent, there’s a learning curve. Contrary to popular belief, you aren’t born knowing how to love properly.
It isn’t an innate quality, and yes, it is possible to do it wrong.
What most people fail to realize is when we first experience romantic love, it’s an entirely selfish act — a selfish act disguised as an entirely selfless one. This is a huge problem.
What ends up happening is all that extra fluff we ourselves conjure up inevitably dissipates, leaving us feeling more egocentric than before we fell in love.
As the excitement fades, settling into a calmer state of flux, we begin to feel as if the love is fading. And, in a large sense, we’re right.
When we love for the first time, we don’t understand how to love. We equate excitement with love.
We confuse our selfishness for complete selflessness — and it catches up with us.
Not only should you not worry about being someone’s first love, I’d highly recommend you avoid it altogether.
The truth is first loves — although the most intense and memorable — are also the least likely to succeed and most likely to cause you incredible emotional pain.

You have to learn how to be selfless.

To love is to embrace a certain level of selflessness. Doing so successfully is much harder than most people think.
There is so much rhetoric surrounding the concept of love, telling us how seamless, effervescent and eternal it is that many individuals get tricked into believing just that.
Love is nothing more than an idea, albeit an idea capable of soliciting an intense emotional response. Being selfless isn’t an idea; it’s a decision.
No one is selfless by nature because selflessness is literally against our nature.
It takes time to learn to become more selfless — not entirely selfless but more selfless. Most importantly, it’s important to understand where to draw the line.
There are psychological implications to selflessness, and giving too much of ourselves to any single individual always ends up doing more harm than good.
The only way to get a feel of the appropriate balance is through trial and error.

You have to understand yourself psychologically and emotionally in order to make a relationship last.

Love changes lives because it catches people off guard.
No matter what you’ve been told about love or what you think you know about love until you’ve actually fallen in love, you can’t possibly understand it.
It’s like trying to describe the experience of the color blue to a blind person.
Unfortunately, being in love alone is not enough to fully understand love.
The truth is you can’t understand love until you understand the hole it leaves once it’s lost. Human beings learn by trial and error, by a system of rewards and punishments
Attaining knowledge is largely a conditioning process. While the wiser of us have learned to learn from all the good, it’s only because we’ve already experienced enough bad to imagine how the lack thereof would feel.
In other words, even the most experienced and seasoned of individuals only know not to mess with fire because they’ve already gotten burned.
The same goes for love — unless you understand how it feels to have lost it, you’ll never understand how to appreciate.
For this reason, being someone’s first love is not desirable. Those who have never been in love don’t understand themselves well enough to be capable of maintaining a healthy loving relationship.

First loves usually end up being incredibly painful reality checks.

For both of those involved, I’m afraid. It’s even worse if you’ve been in love before, learned to understand the beast a bit better only to have fallen for someone who has yet to pop that emotional cherry.
For first-timers, the experience is an awfully confusing one. The obsession they had is dwindling, and they aren’t sure where to find solid ground to stand on.
Everything is changing at a rapid pace, and understanding what you’re feeling is very difficult.
It’s even worse for those who have already loved before because they can’t do anything more than just stand there and watch as the people they love allow the love they share to fade into dust.
They know there is nothing they can do because love is a choice only the individual him or herself can choose to accept as his or her reality. You can’t force or trick someone into loving you.
It’s a reality check for both individuals involved; the newbie lover begins to distinguish the difference between the emotions he or she feels and what it actually means to love while the seasoned lover is forced to accept that.
When it comes to life and love, things are sometimes completely out of your control.
Accepting both of these truths isn’t easy. When we love, we enjoy it as much as we do because we feel it’s out of our control.
We feel the world is sending us a sign, aligning the stars just for us when, in fact, the exact opposite is true.
Love is not entirely, but almost entirely, in our control while someone else loving us, on the other hand, is out of our hands entirely. Life will often prove you wrong when being right means the most to you.
Life will disappoint, but that doesn’t mean you should allow yourself to dwell in disappointment.
There is always another chance for love, and as long as you don’t give up, you’ll find that lasting and everlasting love.
It almost certainly won’t be your first, but why do you need it to be?

25 Signs You’ve Found Your Life Partner

The quest to find our one true “person” is always on the forefront of our minds.
It’s almost impossible to escape the desire to find our soulmates when rom-coms are flooding our television screens, adorable couples are taking over our Instagram pages and most of our friends are getting engaged or married.
No wonder we’re feeling more alone than ever with our Ben & Jerry’s pints and Netflix accounts.
When we step back and see couples around us experiencing the “head over heels” type of love, we realize how much being alone really sucks.
And, because of this, we start to settle for way less than what we deserve.
It’s become such a problem that we often forget what it means to have found our one true love — the person we should be spending the rest of our lives with.
Your one true love will affect your life in more ways than just putting a smile on your face or giving you butterflies. Here are the reasons why:

1. He’ll support you.

No matter how big your dreams may be or how crazy your cravings are at 2 am, he understands and supports it, even if he may not get it.
When you’re up all hours of the night cramming for an exam or trying to meet a work deadline, he’ll be right by your side, cheering you on, making your third pot of coffee and rubbing your back when you need a 5-minute break.

2. He really listens to you.

When you’re venting about how much your mother is annoying you or how your best friend has betrayed you, he hears you.
Even though you may not think so, he’s all ears at the moment, and he’ll prove that he’s been paying attention all along later down the line.
Your person will never forget what you say, when you say it and how you say it.

3. He builds with you, not for you.

He will never say, “You wouldn’t have this if it weren’t for me” because he works with you, as a team.
Together, you build for your futures, not separately. He only wants what is best for you because it’s what is best for him, too.

4. You trust him, and vice versa.

You know you’ve found your person when a guys’ or girls’ night out is no big deal.
When he tells you he’s having a night on the town, you don’t freak out and stalk his friends’ Snapchats and Instagrams for clues.
Instead, it’s just a perk for you to veg out and finish bingeing the new series you just started.

5. You don’t always have to be doing something.

Not every day has to be jam-packed with plans. When you’re with your person, even the chill days are magical.
From the minute you wake up, you know it’ll be an adventure because nothing can ever be boring with him by your side.

6. He never puts you down.

We, women, don’t always feel our best. Some days we feel bloated, and other days we feel like failures. We all have our days.
Your person will never let you feel like that for more than a minute because he will be there to lift your confidence and spirit right back up.
He’ll make sure you know you’re the most special in a room full of people because he will always have his eyes on you.

7. He knows how you take your coffee.

Personally, coffee is the key to happiness. Whether it’s your coffee, your eggs or your alcohol, your person knows just how to make it and how to make it right.
My person always knows I need my large black iced coffee.

8. No matter how long you go without seeing each other, things never change.

Life gets busy, and jobs, school, families and responsibilities always seem to drown us.
There will be weeks you just can’t see your person, but when you do, it’s never awkward or uncomfortable.
You two find any way to text or call while you can, and when you do see each other in person, it feels even better than the last.

9. But, you miss him immensely when he’s gone.

When you’re swamped and just can’t find any free time in your schedule, your person will never make you feel guilty about neglect.
Instead, he’ll find ways to see you because he just misses you that much.
My boyfriend always Skypes me when I’m swamped with work just so he can “see my face.” Your person will always make it happen.

10. Any news that happens — good or bad — you reach to call him first.

When you nail your interview, lose a family member or find a really good sale, your person is the first one you call.
He’s the one who helped you with the hard decisions, the difficult emotions and the things you just can’t figure out on your own.
He always gives the best advice, and he always knows what to say.

11. You want to share everything you experience with him.

When you try a new restaurant or see a preview for a really great movie, you know your person is the one you want by your side to enjoy it with.
It doesn’t take even a millisecond for you to make the decision; your gut just knows. The first one you think of is your person.

12. Your happiness means his happiness.

If he’s unhappy, you’re unhappy. If you’re unhappy, he’s unhappy. Your person will do anything to make your day because it makes his day, and vice versa.
You two are attached by the soul, so whatever you feel, he feels.

13. You’re always honest with each other.

If that dress isn’t super flattering on you or those pants are just a little too tight, your person won’t tell you so to offend you.
He’ll tell you because he wants you to be the best version of yourself.
He’ll tell you who your sh*tty friends are on the spot, why you should quit your job and admit he finished the Doritos you were looking forward to eating since 11 am.

14. There are no boundaries in your love.

If you can’t fart in front of him, he’s not your person.

15. Your fights never last more than a few minutes.

When you fight, you can’t help but crack a smile in the middle because your person just makes you that happy.

16. They’re not really fights; they’re more so just heated arguments.

You and your person don’t fight and there are never any blowouts because you two are so concerned with your lives together. You would never want to compromise that for a second.

17. He doesn’t put up with your family because he actually loves them.

Your person takes the time out to really get to know your family because he wants to become a part of it.
He doesn’t put up with your nagging mother, your crazy sister or your overbearing father because he gets to know each of them on a deeper level.
He knows being a part of your life means being a part of your family.

18. No problem is too big for you to solve together.

Two heads are better than one, and when you and your person get together, there is nothing you can’t do. Even if it means putting together an entire Ikea furniture set in one day (thanks Mel), you know how to get the job done together.

19. The little things are what matter most to both of you.

You know it’s your person when he notices the little things others just don’t.
He makes the most of every moment you spend together, he finds the sunshine in all of the storms, and he remembers all the small details along the way.

20. You weren’t looking for him; it just kind of happened.

When you go out looking for something, chances are it’ll never happen.
Your person just came to you, like you two were from the same star and were destined to find each other.
No matter how old you are, you’ll always find your person.

21. You don’t only think of him as your lover and your best friend.

Your person may know exactly how to turn you on, but he knows exactly how to make you laugh, too. He’s a part-time lover and a full-time friend.

22. All of your most cherished memories are with him.

When you think back on your life, your favorite moments are always with him by your side.
The best part is you’ll have thousands of pictures to remember them, too.

23. He lifts you higher.

There’s a saying that goes, “Let go of anything that weighs you down.”
When you look at your life, your person will be the one constant that will always lift you higher, make you the best version of yourself and hold your hand down the road to success.

24. You get each others’ quirks.

The snorts, the nail biting, the lip picking and the eye squinting: He just gets it.
Your bad habits and weird quirks are not weird or bad in his eyes. They’re just what makes you you.

25. You wouldn’t be the same without him.

When you meet your person, your life changes. You don’t change because your person would never want to change you. Instead, your outlook on life shifts.
You start to see brighter colors and feel stronger emotions. You look back on the past years without him and think, “Holy sh*t, how did I ever live without him?”

The Top 5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Jumping Into A New Relationship

Today, so many of us are focused on finding love or people to spend our lives with that we end up settling and/or getting into relationships for all the wrong reasons.
Love is something we want so badly. There are novels written just for our generation with detailed instructions on how to get someone to like you.
There are also movies, blogs and entire institutions that have been created solely to help people seeking relationships.
It’s insane.
Fortunately, you don’t have to read any of these books, watch any of those movies or hurry to sign up for dating websites in order to find the person of your dreams.
Here are only five questions you need to ask yourself before embarking on the hunt for your next relationship.
Answer them honestly, as they will determine whether or not you are ready for one, and if you are, they will ensure you will attract your perfect person:

1. You love yourself?

I mean, for real. Spend a day in your own shoes, and listen to the things you tell yourself.
Do you put yourself down often? If you cannot speak to yourself in a kind way, why would you expect someone else to treat you kindly?

2. You committed to the things you are passionate about?

Is there even anything in your life you are passionate about other than finding a relationship?
Have you ever put off your morning run or been late for work because you wanted to continue cuddling?
Commitment to yourself is something you must master before your next relationship.
We attract what we are, so if you are uncommitted to yourself, you will most likely attract someone who has commitment issues.

3. Do you know who you are looking for, or will you settle for the first person who pays attention to you?

As a human, I know you love attention, but you are better than that.
To narrow things down, write a letter to the hypothetical partner of your dreams, thanking him or her for how he or she treats you.
This will help you decide whether or not the next person you meet makes the cut.

4. Are you just looking for someone to fill a void? Are you always after people who could potentially be your next projects?

We are often attracted to people we want to “fix” as a way of avoiding what needs to be “fixed” in our own lives.
They are great distractions but, there is no one out there who can fill a void forever.
Make self-care a priority in your life, and practice looking at the areas of your own life that may need improvement.
Until you are able to do this, you are not ready for a relationship.

5. Are you stable enough for another element of instability in your life?

Relationships are difficult because the other person has a will of his or her own.
We must be willing to have a greater amount of compassion than we do when we are single.
We also must be willing to stay open, even though this means we might get hurt. Openness, though, is a key component for a successful relationship.
Practice having an open heart so the person you date next feels comfortable opening up, too.
The people you attract are always reflections of who you really are.
So, if you are looking for someone who is loving, supportive, kind, committed and loyal, be that person!
The best way to find your dream relationship is to become the person you are looking for.
The most important relationship we will ever have are the ones we have with ourselves, as these are the relationships that will determine how all the others turn out.

So Amazing 4 Ways You Subconsciously Surrender Your Mind And Body To A New Love

How do you know when you’re falling in love? The tricky part is you don’t really “know.”
The phases leading up to love seem to be more of a power struggle between your mind and your heart, rather than a blissful journey you have complete control over.
For those who yearn for someone to hug, kiss and care about, love is truly a blessing.
But, for those who find themselves wrapped up in this intense emotion with no way out, it can feel like a curse.
And although the way you view love is your personal opinion, the way you surrender to love is the same as the millions of other 20-somethings in the dating world today.
Either way you look at it, love is a powerful, intangible and often an indescribable force you can be sure will make a guest appearance in your life at some point.

He/She Changes Up Your Routine

The first time you meet this person, he or she ignites a spark in you that is unfamiliar to anything you have experienced before.
This person seems to have awoken you from the uniform, daily tasks that currently make up your life.
Whether it begins with a shy introduction, a handshake, a hug, a kiss on the cheek or a nod, the result is always the same: explosive.

He/She Dominates Your Thoughts

Next thing you know, this person has managed to finagle his or her way into your subconscious, spreading thoughts of “What if?”
From there, the idea of this person has now managed to push its way to the forefront of your brain, making sure that with every minute, he or she graces your thoughts.
With every vibration of your phone, you’re hoping it’s a text from this person, in which you will cling to every word.
Before you met that special person, life was simple and routine, but having since met him or her, your life is now refreshed, exciting and fun. I
t is as if this person has come into your life and allowed you experience highs you thought you could only experience on the best drugs.
You have allowed this person to successfully conquer the hardest and most complex part of you: your mind.
While your brain endures euphoria with every thought and moment spent with this person, your body is unaware that it is the next stop on this dangerous, winding road.

You Only Crave Him/Her

Your body is unraveling at the seams with every touch; this person’s kisses make you melt, his or her embrace feels like home and the s*x is wild.
Even when you are not touching, just being close to this person feels as though there is an invisible magnet between you, drawing you two together.
Soon enough, the peace you once had when being by yourself is now only attainable in the presence of this person.

He/She Has Your Heart

Once this person has taken over your mind and body, your heart is the last piece to follow through, which it will every time.
Whenever you see this person, your heart skips a beat; when you’re away from him or her for too long, you feel a dull pain in your chest — the first sign of heartache.
And, just like that, you’re head-over-heels in love with this person, and you may not have even been aware of it.
The body seems to go through these four steps unconsciously, and maybe there’s a good reason for that. Maybe love should be the one thing you don’t have to think so hard about.
Whatever happens after you fall in love varies greatly from person to person. You may fall out of love; you may get married; you may never be the same again.
But, the four ways you surrender to a great love is the same for all of us.

Why I Still Believe In The Lost Art Of Dating

There’s so much talk today about the death of “real dates.” You know, old-fashioned dates, ones that typically consist of a dinner out and maybe a movie or something.
And while I’m not sold that “real dates” must require the clichéd dinner-and-a-movie approach — I can’t deny the fact that our generation hasn’t pumped the brakes on well-thought-out dates, with a clear conscience.
Phones sort of eliminated the whole “meeting someone” process when the app store started overflowing with various dating apps.
Social media sites make it infinitely easier to create an illusion of intimacy by enabling us to share personal aspects of our life through entire social networks with a tap of a touch screen.
In short, the types of things we’d only be able to know about someone by getting close to him or her — in a physical sense — are now made public at all times of the day.
I, personally, don’t think this needs to be the Armageddon of “real dates”; I just think we have to put forth extra effort to seek them out. Real dates are important.
Not just for the pleasure of the one you may be courting, but also for you, yourself.
Whether you realize it or not, dates present the most efficient means of determining whether or not you’re with the right person or not.
By trying to take shortcuts around the dating process, you’ll only find yourself further down the wrong path — in some type of illusory “relationship” with someone you actually can’t stand to be around.
If that’s what you’re looking for — and what you’re content with — so be it.
If you’re looking for something more significant, however, it’s important to put in the time and work required by “real dates.”
Here’s why.

Dates create an opportunity for you to stand out.

Everyone appears the same on the screen of his or her iPhone.
Every guy a girl speaks to will pop up in a white “chat bubble,” and every time he thinks “liking” one of her Instagram photos will show his admiration — well, he should think again.
If you truly want to stand out among the rest of the guys or girls who might also be in pursuit, you should be proactive about making that impression.
The best way to do this is with real-life, face-to-face interaction — even if only over a cup of coffee.

Dates require real-life effort.

Real dates require effort. They require you to make a dinner reservation, put together a decent outfit to wear and even make a good impression on the girl or guy you’re trying to court.
I’ve always felt you take out what you put into things in life, and relationships are no different.
If you want a relationship to have any real-life substance, you’re going to have to put real-life effort in.
It will be obvious if you’re only calling on her when it’s convenient for you — and, at the same time — it will be equally as obvious that your intentions are genuine if you put forth the effort required by real, old fashioned dates.

Dates demonstrate an ability to plan.

Dates create the perfect window for you to prove to a woman you’re not only aware of her interests — but you’re mindful enough to incorporate them into your time together.
Let’s say he or she drops, in passing conversation, that he or she is into art — or live music.
Take your time. Do your due diligence — look for an art exhibit in the area or a concert you can take him or her to.
This will prove you’re capable of listening to this person’s passions, and you’re competent enough to put two and two together.

Dates can help you get to know someone on a more intimate level.

There’s only so much you can learn about someone over text.
If you spend the majority of your time interacting through SMS — with s*x as the only physical contact accompanying these interactions — expect your relationship to only be skin deep.
Dates encourage conversation and require you to spend time just existing with one another — outside of the bedroom.
Unless you’re planning on doing the Lennon-Ono type of thing — where you don’t really leave bed ever — it would certainly serve in your best interests to get to know your significant other on a more intimate level.
Even if that intimacy translates to simply going for a walk and talking about your day.

Dates create the best memories.

If you have any hopes of the dating process becoming anything worthwhile, you should value each step you take along the way.
It’s a good feeling to be with somebody you actually care about and have vivid memories of your time together with.
Dates create memories, and these memories are what add meaning to your relationship.
You can remember specific nights forever, solely off the strength of the connection you felt for another person while together with him or her.
Even if it’s just a dinner out on the town, the chemistry you felt can have the tendency to carry over into the future.

Dates provide a public setting to test your intimacy.

It’s important to have a one-on-one connection with the person you’re dating, but at the same time, it’s also important to maintain an active lifestyle — outside of Netflix and nights in.
Dating is all about testing your relationship outside of your comfort zones.
You might think you know someone, within the privacy of your own bed, only to find out he or she acts completely different when out in public.
Keep in mind that dating is a process — it’s important for yourself to remain constantly aware on dates and make sure you’re not just wasting your time with someone you have no future with.